Can I be present when the appraiser examines my belongings?

In most cases, yes, and many appraisers prefer it. Being there lets you answer questions about where items came from, point out pieces you are curious about and share family history that may matter for identification or provenance.

You can also learn a lot by watching how a professional examines things, from checking marks on silver to looking at the construction of a drawer. Feel free to ask questions, but give them room to work, since constant conversation can slow down the visit.

If you cannot be there, such as when a house is in another city, arrange for a trusted family member or the executor to provide access. Make sure everyone agrees in advance which rooms and items are included so the appraiser does not have to guess.